Thursday, April 24, 2025

Still trying to keep up. . . . .

 Good intentions but I think I get so overwhelmed with what is going on in the world.   I fear the direction our country has gone since Trump took office.  He had four years to make his 'revenge' lists and then continued to look for anything going on in the world that he disagreed with, and regardless whether or not it was within his power, he attacked it.  I can't believe how threatened the congress (both Republicans and Democrats) is and is doing NOTHING to stop him.   Thank goodness there are some federal judges who are trying to reign in many of his 'executive' orders.  And because they are, he is looking for ways to get rid of those judges!!  We are a country of checks and balances but it's disappeared. . .. . I wish I knew how to truly affect change.  I know that I will NOT vote for any Republican currently in congress when it comes to their time to be re-elected.  They blew any chance they had.   What is also so disconcerting is how many people seem to feel everything Trump is doing is good.   I am not above understanding that there were areas in the government that were too large, but his wholesale chopping up is tragic.  His dismantling of many departments is deplorable.  What a sociopath and narcissist.   Our poor country :-(

Monday, April 7, 2025

Another lapse. . . .

I don't know if this will publish like my others with the same font etc.   I can't remember what I did on the post a month ago that looked the same as my original ones. 

Our month in Palm Desert: 

Plusses: 

Pete and Patty from Portland . . . . and Sydney too!

Great weather

Seeing Peg and Rick and Pam and Bill

Liz and Jack visiting

Shopping

Albertson's -- loved that store!!

Negatives:

The Drive there and back. . . never again!!!

Too much time with Chuck

VRBO rental not represented correctly on website (I don't really want to go into listing everything:-(

Too long when you considered the drives

Too much like being home but in nicer weather (washing; meals etc.)  Missed the 'resort' feeling when we stay at one of our timeshares.

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As with every trip. . . . we come back NOT knowing what we'll do next year!! But know we wont be renting from VRBO for a month.  

Difficult times with Trump as president.  He is certifiably crazy!!  Everything he has done is absolutely nuts, and now with the tariffs he has killed our finances   It makes me dislike Chuck because he voted for that con artist.


Monday, March 3, 2025

Where have the years gone?!?

 

March 3, 2025

Shame on me. . . how many years since I last wrote.  I guess that social media took the place of my blog when I started.  SO much life since then: 

~retired in 2017

~moved to Des Moines in 2019

~still trying to figure it all out (what to do when I grow up?)!!

Currently Chuck and I (yes, 51 years and going!) are currently in Palm Desert where we have gone on vacation for 8, 9, 10 years?  Only difference is that we drove, and have decided we won't to that again!! Not sure how we'll drive home as there are definitely mountains between California and Iowa.  

Sometimes it's hard to balance reality with expectations.  That's true every day, but even more intense during vacation.  I expected perfection in our VRBO and I've been disappointed in some things ( overall cleanliness, quantity of towels, comfort of furniture, sheets on the bed (sorry. . . I hate wrinkles), pillows (had to go out and buy a firm one.) In the grand scheme of things they are all minor.  The PLUS is the next door neighbors we met: Pete and Patti from Portland. ( P, P, P!)  The bonus is their dog, Sydney - an 8yr old labradoddle.  So sweet -- lots of kisses.  She was looking for Lucy, who was the dog in this unit last March when PPP where here.   

Mickey would have gotten along well with Sydney.  Missing our Mickey. . .he was so the light of our life for 15 years.  We were so blessed to have him as a major part of our life.  Hopefully he looks down on us with love. . . and knows he was blessed to be our special doggie.  Love you little guy!!

 Well -- that's it for today.  Hopefully this is something I keep up -- my track record isn't good, unfortunately.   Trying a new approach!

Love, BonBon 💗

    

 


 

Thursday, August 30, 2012

Still on course :-)

Wow, I'm impressed -- here I am writing only two days since I last wrote.   Has a lot to do with the Labor Day weekend coming and few client emails -- most people have VACATION and TIME OFF to be with family and friends.  I end up feeling guilty when I resent the demands of the workplace -- I SHOULD be happy I have a job, right?  Right?  Right, I guess.   I just feel the call to be more creative, spend the days I can doing the things I really want to do and NOT be so confined by a job and the daily 9 - 5.  Yuck.   Okay - off to work, lunch is over!   (I just don't know how to be other than the person I am. . . for good or bad.)

Tuesday, August 28, 2012

New 'School' Year. . . .

So, another 3 months have passed. . . . June spent mostly in Omaha; July busy with visiting family, and a lot of August 're-charging' my batteries and or driving to Fond du Lac.  No wonder I feel as though my summer came and went way too quickly.   I guess I need to embrace fall since Labor Day is only a few days away.  And maybe I should embrace it like I did in my initial career as a teacher.  The one thing I loved about teaching was the 'new beginning' that each new school year brought. No matter how disappointing the previous year was, the summer gave me time to clear the cobwebs, re-charge the batteries and generate enthusiasm for another new group of students.   I need that 're-charge' more now than ever.  With the latest reminder that 'some things never change' and with the escalating frustration level it just doesn't make sense to keep hitting my head on the VEE walls.   Thank goodness I have some terrific clients. . . . I suppose they represent the terrific students I would have in the past.   In both cases, the personal connection is what keeps me going; what re-charges my batteries.  

That means, that September 4th begins my NEW YEAR. . . and fun for me to see the connection to my all-time favorite number 4!!  I feel like I've wasted August, but it's such a 'down' month.  Most people are on vacation or not feeling the urgency that will come after Labor Day.   I just need to transfer that 'urgency' and 'energy' to my OWN needs and not necessary the needs of this job.  Time to move on and create the next step in my life. :-)

Wednesday, May 16, 2012

Me again!

Okay. . . . still trying to re-boot with minimal success.  Some days are okay, especially since I am feeling committed to making a change.   Just don't know what that change will be. . . wish I had a vision but until I have an 'ending' it makes sense that the future is unclear.  When I was younger I thought I'd have my act together by now, but the older I get the more I realize that very few people are comfortable with what their life has been and are still unsettle about where life is taking us.  Is that a 'Boomer Curse'??   Hey -- is that a title of a book?  Funny how things like that strike me -- think I should pay more attention to my 'thoughts.'   Mrs. Lang (Creative Writing at MV) was the one who initially commented on recording and writing down thoughts --- making sense of things can come later (if at all.) Ah. . . the creative process.  Need to find ways to re-charge that in myself. 

Monday, February 13, 2012

Lack of success. . . .

I certainly thought I would post more often than I do.   I feel like I'm not being successful in most areas of my life at the moment. . . work, home, family, friends. . . . so 'extensions' like a blog are victim of the 'dull' routine I'm in.    I almost feel paralyzed. . . . not able to do things that are easy to do (emails for work; de-cluttering at home) and don't know why.   Looking back I've always gone through periods like this so I shouldn't be surprised, yet somehow I am.  I guess I want to feel I can overcome this lethargy by sheer will power.  Not so easy!   What's the cause?  Winter? (typically I can assume this, but we've had such a mild winter this year that I can't blame cold & snow)  I am feeling ineffective at work -- I think that has more to do with the fact that I've done this job for over ten years and the 'thrill' is gone.  Don't know how to re-kindle it, but the thought of a new job at my age is a bit too much to fathom.  I fantasize about having free time and flexibility but will I have the financial wherewithall to do the things I want to if I'm no longer working?!?!?   Catch 22.   I need to re-boot my life.